Why Men Marry Wrong…
The discrimination of
female child is long gone and society has given them a better position to make
their unwavering contributions. They now sit and dine with men in high places
and in most cases, are more advantaged than men. A good woman can make a good
wife but a good wife can be a bad wife in the hands of a bad husband. A gentleman
can bring the best out of a lovely woman.
But it is suicidal to
marry a nagging and unethical woman. A man’s definition of a bad wife would be
nagging, excessive spending, uncordial relationship with his close family,
inadequate support and other ill idiosyncrasy (behaviour). Truth is that
whatever a woman becomes, a man contributes to it. Relationships are
opportunities for man and woman who feels they are in love to explore their
goals and aspiration for likely future union.
Relationships are therefore
supposed to create harmony and better understanding of each other. On the other
hand, some relationships are just to give moments and help us grow through life
without necessarily leading into marriage. However, the experiences gained can
be useful for future marriage relationship.
The contributions of women in relations is massive as they are often the
binding wire.
A woman will always feel contented
in a comfortable house. It is their inherent nature to be loved and taken care
of, just as it is natural for men to love and admire to beautiful ladies. The
warmness of a woman is every man’s insatiable quest. Her aura and glowing skin
can make a man singing praises just to touch, and not to mention her charming
looks that has destroyed great men of the past. Even the Holy ones in the good
book described them perfectly. For different reasons, a time comes in a man
life when he chooses to marry.
Some are fortunate to
marry well trained women, while some end up being victims of their decision. Below
are some three reasons men marry wrong wives.
1.
She is Very Beautiful.
Many men have married
Queens and Princesses solely because of their look. His quest to make her his
wife can overshadow his sense of reasoning. Despite knowing her behavioural weakness,
he would still want to marry her. He can utilize every resource he has just to
make sure he doesn’t lose her. Recounting her attractive body features starting
from body shape, to her huge backside, soft lips, to the front endowment, give
more reasons to marry her. To even loose her to another man’s arm, would be
more devastating.
2.
She Works, Earns Salary and Can Support Me.
With the harsh economic
situations, many men would prefer to marry a working class lady or, rather wait
until that well cultured girl gets something doing. He may end up marrying a
working class lady despite knowing the incompatible nature of their relationship.
But if he chooses to wait until the well trained girl gets a job, he may end up
losing her to another Man. The courage to marry a well cultured girl and invest
in her, can be rewarding.
3.
You
choose the wrong person because you do not share a common life goals and
priorities. There are three basic
ways we connect with another person:
1.
Chemistry and compatibility
2.
Share common interests
3.
Share common life goal
Make
sure you share the deeper level of connection that sharing life goals provide.
After marriage, the two of you will either grow together or grow apart. To
avoid growing apart, you must figure out what you're "living for,"
while you're single -- and then find someone who has come to the same
conclusion as you. This is the true definition of a "soul mate." A
soul mate is a goal mate -- two people who ultimately share the same
understanding of life's purpose and therefore share the same priorities, values
and goals.
4. Not
Knowing When To Give Up in a Relationship.
Crops cannot survive
without rain. The Rain waters the soil for crops survival. To be successful,
you need to have some rain. Storms are meant to test our resilience and preparedness
for greater things ahead. Human relationships are full of ups and downs-failures
and struggles. But the truth is that, without these downs, you can’t be sure of
whom your real friends are. Sometimes it is right to allow ugly situations up
or walk away. Marriage is ideal for a Man and Woman who understand clearly
their behavioural differences and unwavering commitment to raising a family.
Marrying out of pity, material quest or how beautiful or handsome s/he is, is
foolishness. A man must be decisive in any relationship if he must be respected
and followed by his partner. He must set principles, create friendly
communication and allow scenarios that can improve his relationship.
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